Shelley Badayos

@shelleybadayos

TO ALL SINGLE MEN!

Tired of Feeling Stuck In The Friendzone? Let’s Fix That

If you’re a single man tired of second-guessing every move and getting friendzoned when you want more — then DATING WITH CONFIDENCE is for you

Have You Ever...

  • Felt like you’re doing everything “right” but still end up stuck in the friendzone? 🤷‍♂️

  • Psyched yourself up to approach someone, only to freeze up and walk away feeling defeated?

  • Wondered why dating feels so easy for others, while you’re left overthinking every word, every move, and every interaction?

  • Felt tired of swiping endlessly on apps, only to have conversations that never lead to a real connection?

If this sounds all too familiar, you’re not alone—

Dating With Confidence is my coaching program for single men who are tired of overthinking and ready to feel more sure of themselves when it comes to dating.

After coaching so many men who struggled with the same patterns: confusion, frustration, and always second-guessing themselves. I created this program to change that.

You’ll break free from the guessing game and finally learn how to show up with clarity, confidence, and the kind of energy that naturally attracts the right women.

This is PERFECT for you if...

  • You’re successful in your career, but dating still feels like a mystery

  • You overthink every text, convo, or next move with women

  • You keep ending up in the friendzone when you want something more

  • You freeze up or second-guess yourself when it’s time to make a move

  • Dating apps feel like a dead end (and honestly, kind of draining)

  • You’re watching others find love while you feel stuck on the sidelines

and most of all...

  • You're ready to put in the work and invest in yourself to finally make a change

NOW ACCEPTING APPLICATIONS FOR

AUGUST 2025!

Proof That This Sh*t Works

"I was still dealing with the fallout I had from a really nasty breakup a while back. Working with Shelley really helped me kind of find my footing again."

- Justin

" Shelley helped me to not only find out what is going to work for me, but helped me to find what I was actually looking for."

- Scott

 "There was a point where I was so depressed and I contemplated about suicide. I thought my life was going nowhere, and she helped me out with that. She saved my life."

- Greg

WHAT YOU GET INSIDE DATING WITH CONFIDENCE

This isn’t some course you half-watch while folding laundry or a video series collecting dust in your inbox — it’s a hands-on coaching experience built to give you structure, support, and real results in your dating life.

Here’s everything you’ll get inside the program:

✅ Weekly Live Coaching Sessions
Come get coached, ask questions, and get clarity on what’s keeping you stuck — so you always know your next move

✅ Step-by-Step Video Modules
Follow a clear roadmap that walks you through the mindset, communication skills, and confidence-building tools you need to attract the right women — and keep them

✅ Biweekly Mock Date Sessions
Practice real-life conversations, flirtation, and connection in a safe space with live feedback — so you feel prepared when it matters

✅ Personalized 1:1 Coaching
Every other month, you’ll get a private coaching call with me to dive deeper into anything you’re working through and get tailored support

✅ Private Messaging Support
Ask questions, get feedback, or get coached in between sessions through our private app — you’re never left figuring it out on your own

✅ Tools, Prompts & Bonus Resources
Worksheets, conversation prompts, self-reflection tools, and mini-challenges to help you integrate the work and build real momentum

✅ Supportive Community of Men on the Same Path
You’ll be surrounded by a group of men who get it — who are also growing, stretching, and showing up in their dating lives with intention. This is a space to share wins, get support, and not do it alone anymore

You’ll be here for 6 months. But women will be wondering where you’ve been their whole life. 😎

Don't Just Take My Word For It...

"Before this, I felt really insecure about myself."

"I am really happy I decided to take this step and open up to Shelley. Before this, I felt really insecure about myself. I thought that women were above me, like I’m not enough for them. She helped me realize that I am a very unique person and once I accept myself for who I am, I will have the power to do anything I set my mind to. I’m excited to implement the advice she gave me and start meeting and talking to the type of women I’m excited about."

- Blake

"I would highly recommend her program to anyone."

"At first, I wasn’t sure about opening up in regards to jumping back into dating and relationships, but Shelley made me feel at ease. She was able to pinpoint the emotional and psychological issues that were likely to cause of my complacency and she was able to suggest things that could help me fix them.

I really think I feel more confident after our session and I would highly recommend her program to anyone."

- Ken

"She genuinely cares about her clients succeeding in their relationships."

"Shelley is a great listener and able to take complex situations and emotions and break them down to identify problems and offer solutions.  She is easy to talk to, has a good sense of humor, and genuinely cares about her clients succeeding in their relationships.  I would highly recommend Shelley Badayos as a relationship coach."

- Tony

Hi, I'm Shelley—Your Dating Coach Next Door!

I’m a certified life and dating coach for men, helping single men confidently navigate the dating world for the past two years. As a woman, I bring a fresh perspective and practical advice, cutting through the outdated and often unhelpful “bro advice” out there.

I specialize in Attachment Style Theory, empowering men to understand themselves better and build healthier connections.

I created this program because I’ve seen a common struggle among my clients, and I wanted to provide more support while fostering a community where men feel seen, heard, and not alone.

BOOK A CALL NOW TO LEARN MORE!

WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR?

Click the button below to get started.

This program will fill up. Don’t wait ‘til you’re stuck in the same spot next month.

STILL NOT SURE?

This might help you out

(A.K.A. Frequently Asked Questions)

Who is this program for?

This program is designed for single men who are ready to level up their dating game, build confidence, and attract the right partner. Whether you’re new to dating or have been struggling for a while, this program gives you the tools and support to succeed.

As long as you’re ready to dedicate time, put in the effort, and invest in yourself, you’re qualified.

This is not an overnight fix—you’ll need to show up and put in the work to see lasting results.

What makes ‘Dating with Confidence’ different?

This isn’t just another generic dating course. It’s a group coaching program tailored specifically to men, combining mindset shifts, practical strategies, and support from like-minded individuals. Plus, it’s led by me, a certified dating coach, WHO IS A WOMAN. What more can you ask for? 🤭

How do I know if I’m a good fit?

Easiest way to find out is to book a free call 😉

What if I’ve tried other dating advice and it didn’t work?

This program focuses on real, lasting transformation, not surface-level tricks. You’ll learn to understand yourself and what women want, so you can create genuine connections that last.

How much time do I need to commit?

The program runs for 6 months, with weekly live coaching sessions and self-paced modules you can go through whenever. But let’s be real — if you want results, you gotta show up. That means joining the calls, doing the work, and shaking up that work-gym-home-repeat routine... because if that was working, you wouldn’t be here. 😏

What’s included in the program?

You’ll get weekly live coaching, expert masterclasses, self-paced lessons you can tackle in your sweats, and a private community of guys who are on the same journey. It’s real support, zero fluff — and everything you need to stop overthinking and start actually enjoying dating. 😉

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